Brown the chicken in a skillet and season it with salt and black pepper to taste.
Remove the chicken from the skillet and set it to one side.
Heat the sesame oil in the same skillet, and sauté the onions with the garlic and cabbage until the cabbage is cooked to al dente or however you like it.
Stir in the vinegar, soy sauce, sugar or sweetener, hot sauce and ginger.
Add the cooked chicken back in and mix well to combine.
Taste the mixture add add more vinegar, hot sauce, soy sauce, sugar or anything else needed.
Offer hot sauce at the table for people who want to add more.